There is after all only so much one can expect from others. Part of lives digestion is gathering various opinions and what little infirmities that can be gained must be retained for future upheaval.
The wise man once said you only hurt the one you love but that statement is quite narcissistic on the grand level. You always hurt as many as possible, but please try to keep that at a minimum would be more accurate to all truths involved. What goes around comes around which is mostly a virus of seasonal impart.